"Life is not happening to you. Life is responding to you."
~ Author Unknown ~
Advantages and dis-advantages, pros and cons, assets and liabilities, strengths and weaknesses- we all have them. Every situation and every person has them...
And we can focus our attention in either direction, but rather than complaining, it generally feels best to simply accept what is less than ideal, and actively appreciate what's good.
I look for the best in people and situations.