"Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be."
~ Thomas a' Kempis ~
Let's give people the dignity of having done their homework and paid their dues, of knowing more about their own struggles and ailments that they have lived with for years than we can possibly know or even begin to understand in a five minute conversation. Let's back off of our helpful suggestions, and simply listen and send love instead.
I share my experience and compassion with others, but don't peddle quick-fix solutions.