"Do not practice certainty. Practice faith."
~ Robert Brault ~
And then, I realized that nothing is absolute, and that a decision is just a decision, and can, and likely will, be a new decision next week, next month, and next year. So there's no pressure- only choice given the information I have today, and the freedom that comes from releasing the straight-jacket of insistence and demand.
I accept that life is a flexible affair.