"I've met so many people, often the scum of the earth, and found them, you know, quite decent."
~W. Somerset Maugham ~
When we approach people without an agenda, with curiosity and a willingness to be present, and to listen and share authentically, relationships generally go better for us. When we come with blame in our hearts, or suspicion, or insistent demands, we tend to trigger defensiveness in them, which triggers defensiveness in us, and makes for hostile feelings all around.
Love people. I guess that's the bottom line. We all have something of value to contribute and compassion a plenty to exchange.
I genuinely care about the people I meet.
