"Patience and tolerance is our code."
~ Bill Wilson ~
Everyone is doing the best they can given their history, their assumptions, their level of consciousness, and their state of mind. Life pushes and stretches us all to our limits in order to grow us, and the varied nature of where we are and how, exactly, we're being stretched, can generate misunderstanding between us. Given that fact, patience and tolerance are useful, and kindness and compassion are key.
I am where I am emotionally, and let others be where they are.