If we could accept to our cores that it's ok to feel pain of all kinds, whether it be emotional, physical, spiritual, or mental, then perhaps we would not feel it so acutely as something "wrong" and "amiss." Perhaps, then, we could better take it in stride as something to simply experience like all the rest of our experiences- no better and no worse- just a natural part of our living situation.
I stop resisting my pain and let it be.