"Remember, whatever you focus upon, increases."
~ Andy Andrews ~
Rather than trying to be less of something that we don't want- less critical, less abrasive, less controlling- let's shift our syntax slightly and choose instead to be more of what we do want. Let's be more understanding, more willing to live and let live, and more genteel. It makes a difference how we think about it, and it makes a difference how we proceed.
I focus on what I want instead of what I don't want.
