"Charity sees the need, not the cause."
~ German Proverb ~
It makes us feel good to be of service to others- to be helpful and share ideas and make suggestions, so why do we hesitate to ask when
we need help? It's as if we are afraid we will be swallowed up somehow, or become irreparably obligated in a weighty, burdensome kind of way; but it's far more likely that we will simply get... help.
Whatever I need, I ask for it.