"Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong."
~ Peter T. McIntyre ~
When my body is tense and constricted, I am often not even aware of the thing that has me all locked up. It's more of a vague and general kind of insecurity than something specific- a lack of confidence- and a sense of life being too much to handle.
I am afraid to screw up, to make the wrong choice, to create some kind of irredeemable error with the gifts I have been given, and it's all out of proportion, because whatever I choose and decide, it doesn't matter much in the big picture, and what I do or don't do is not a measure of who I am.
I make the best choices I can with the information I have.