"One neglect makes ten regrets."
~ James Lendall Basford ~
In an effort to relieve ourselves of the pressure of responsibility, we turn ourselves over to "experts," and those who seem to know more than we do in whatever capacity we're lacking confidence or knowledge. We turn to doctors, therapists, financial consultants, parents- even friends, and sometimes their guidance is highly beneficial. and just what we needed, and sometimes we would do better to stay a bit more personally involved in all the choosing parts of the process.
Whether I consult with experts or not, I am ultimately responsible for the choices that I make.