Nobody can make something all right for us if it does not fundamentally feel all right, no matter how willing they may be to justify our situation for us, and to make it appear to be ok. If it's not ok for
us, on the inside, then the only thing that will
make it be ok is our absolute honesty followed by some sort of action. We have to
do something in order to change the way the facts are sitting on the inside.
I don't look to others to justify something for me that I know to be wrong. I get honest and do whatever I have to do.