It's a rash man who reaches a conclusion before he gets to it.
~Jacob Levin~
You don't get harmony when everybody sings the same note.
~Doug Floyd~
No decisions in life need to be made under pressure. The consequences of the choices we make are ours alone to deal with so we should always pause before leaping and be sure that leaping is what we really want to do. Deciding things out of fear or restless impulse or to please other people is a recipe for resentment down the road.
Let's make our choices thoughtfully and with care and consideration. Even if the world is demanding our decision and threatening to shut off our options if we don't make up our minds, we still have time to look within and invite our honesty and intuition and intelligence to the process. It is our responsibility and no one else's to take the time it takes us to make the next move.
I make my decisions thoughtfully and do not let others push me around like a flag in the wind.