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Wednesday, June 10, 2015

THE UPSIDE OF THE DOWNSIDE

"Those who expect moments of change to be comfortable and free of conflict have not learned their history."
~ Joan Wallach Scott ~

I have always wanted all the people around me to be happy with each other and happy with me. Conflict, confrontation, and silent tension alarm me at a visceral level, and I prefer to avoid them at all costs and in any way possible. And yet, much as I might want peace in the kingdom, it's inevitable that fights will break out and disharmony will occur.
     But it may not be the death knell I think it to be. Perhaps, there is resolution at the far side of conflict, and evolution somehow in the whole messy mix.

 I allow for the possibility of positive transformation through discomfort.