Moving towards goals needn't be frustrating. It is meant to be starts and stops and tries and fails and if not this then that. We are ever and always being steered towards what is best for us... if we are awake and aware, and if we are willing to let go of our preconceived ideas about the way things "ought" to be. There is no "ought" necessary. Life is an unfolding process, and not a demand.
I stop insisting that things be a certain way and let them be the way they are.