PROCESSING WHAT HAPPENS

     We are incredibly adaptive. Things happen that seem impossible to integrate, that we are sure will hurt forever, or that we'll never find a way to live through, or with... and yet, we do. Over time, the abnormal becomes normal. We learn to accommodate pain and scars and more money and less money and abusive people and death and birth. Our experiences become a part of us. We absorb them.
     And if we are conscious enough to do it, we can use absolutely everything that happens to us to enrich our life experience and enlarge our spirit. We can become wiser and  more evolved. We can transmute suffering into growth. And in that may lie the key to our purpose here on earth- to experience the happenings of our lives and to learn something from them each step along the way.

I let everything that happens in my life serve me somehow. I grow through difficulty.